Dad

Dad is the unnamed patriarch of the family, a gentle, conflict-averse man who has retreated into emotional passivity following the death of his wife. He loves both his daughters but is fundamentally incapable of expressing that love in the direct, engaged way they desperately need. His default response to family tension is to change the subject, leave the room, or defer to Godmother, allowing her to fill the parental vacuum he has abdicated.

Dad's inability to stand up for his daughters — or to see through Godmother's manipulations — is one of the show's most quietly painful dynamics. He is not cruel or neglectful in any active sense; he simply lacks the emotional tools to navigate the complicated grief and resentment that permeate his family. His love is real but passive, expressed through awkward gestures rather than the words his daughters need to hear.

In Season 2, Dad's impending marriage to Godmother forces the family together for a series of events that finally crack open the silence. In a rare moment of vulnerability during the finale, he gives Fleabag her mother's sculpture — a small, quiet act of recognition that carries enormous emotional weight. It suggests that beneath his passivity, Dad has always seen more than he lets on, and that his love for his daughters, however poorly expressed, has never wavered.